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My cat died over the weekend whilst I was away from home. Before I knew, I had a dream where we were sitting outside in the garden and he was fat again and happy.
#also hi i had a bad mental breakdown and deleted all social media and thinking about being online makes me want to kill myself#anyway my cat died + i miss him already + i cant believe i'll never get yelled at again or get claws stuck in my leg or hold him like a bab#he used to make biscuits constantly even if he was just sitting on the floor like he was so full of love#he used to lay on the path in the hope that strangers would pet him#he got so fucking thin and confused and couldnt meow anymore#anyway i'm off to delete tumblr again
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POV: i invited you over to smoke but now were on the bathroom floor n im making u use a gravity bong and listen 2 weird meme music before i info dump on things bc idk how 2 b normal
#might delete bc its kinda cringe n i couldnt take myself seriously but i talk in this lol#but i like getting high in the bathrooms if im gonna sing along to music n im prolly gonna listen 2 hadestown songs i like singing 2 rn soo#anyway if u thought i was hot n cool this is ur proof im not lmao#batbaby
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Just wanna remind everyone that it's NEVER okay to tell someone to die.
You don't know how hard they're fighting to stay alive every day. Or if they don't even want to fight for that any more.
#i hate that i let that get to me lmao just ruined my fucking day ive been sitting here sobbing for like an hour#i cant tell anyone just how much i dont even want to try any more bc i dont see the point#medical issues and mental issues dont pair well and i dunno if im even gonna be able to survive the next flare up#i dont need fandom spaces telling me to die when im already telling myself that every fucking day#also why does my age always get brought up lmao i didnt choose to be born 30 years ago stop telling me im old#my body has been telling me im old since age 11 you dont know what ive fucking been thru#30 was just a formality and serves as another reminder of how ill never meet societys expectations for a 30yo lmao#my point is. you should try showing a little more kindness if telling someone to die comes so easily#ive literally never once told anyone to die in my life. you just dont fucking go there. what if they kill themself right after that?#can you live knowing they did so on your command?#i couldnt#thats just like beyond fucked up#anyway im gonna go try and stop crying#ill prob stay off tumblr today idk i feel real sick lol#delete later / /#i hate that i cant exist as myself either in person (too queer and closeted in a rural area) or online (too queer and weird ships)#anyway
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One of my big compulsions is taking a fuck ton of screenshots Just In Case a piece of information is important in like 4 years and I can't remember it (sometimes the information is an instagram post that I might not remember later and of course needs to be recorded everywhere (I will Not be looking at that again)) so today is my transfer 16000 images off my phone admin day (woo)
Like yeah I never looked at any of them and they were completely irrelevant to my daily life, But what if I need them ✨️ later ✨️ (you'll see that the idea of Later is doing a lot of heavy lifting here) OR what if there's a vital piece of information in the mix somewhere that I'll lose forever if I delete them? So: onto the external hard drive they go
This is one of those cases where. Yeah. Ideally I wouldn't take 16000 screenshots in half a year. And YEAH ideally I'd just delete them and not transfer them somewhere else to never look at again. BUT at least I get a clean slate and I can maybe not mindlessly save everything for 2 seconds. It's like. Small wins? Progress. Yknow.
#rangnar rambles#i also use my tumblr drafts this way which is how i have probably 2000 drafts for this blog that are just? like me saving a post for 'later#and then theres too many in my drafts for me to even find *MY* drafts#i need to just hard reset the draft function bc its literally unusable for me#'matt this is all irrational and weird' by god. my irrational thoughts disorder makes me do weird shit? are you fr rn??? 😨😨#i get so stupidly in my own head and then i dont make progress towards Anything#even like a fun sideblog where i can actually yknow. post that 2k nightmare? i just cringe myself out like a dumbass 😔#i feel like ocd thoughts always sound lame out loud (and in my head to myself too)#like the Urgency doesnt come across#like in the moment i am Completely convinced that my national insurance number and bank deets are in there somewhere#and theres suddenly no way on earth i could ever find them again if i delete the picture. so to the hard drive they go#i Would go through that whole thing if i suddenly needed a screenshot from 2019 btw. like the crazy isnt theoretical#ive hallucinated gas leak smells before and woken up my flatmates bc i couldnt convince myself i was over reacting#its just cus the seasons have changed that everythings ramping up but omg its hard to do anything but spiral nowadays#thats a little dramatic but i am losing like. a quarter of the day to my ocd#its like. not great 😬#im not back to convincing myself i gave my dad cancer but i am not letting myself use half the kitchen again#but eh soo la voo we ball#HAH i checked my drafts after this and i was lowballing so hard#5.7k on this blog. 12k on my main 💀. its not funny but it kind of is#this is why youll never catch me running a queue#this is such a miserable post but i do feel the need to not let it sit in the drafts pile. to prove the point i guess 💀💀💀#'no one gives a shit this is your blog' 'oh my GOD WHAT IF PEOPLE GIVE A SHIT' <- omg shut upppp youre so embarassing 🙄#one more time for the gallery: i am like. aware that these feelings are irrational. like i am fine it just takes time for reality to kick in#ANYWAYS what was that who said that that was so weird im gonna go look at old romantic era paintings now#if tam is a screenshot fiend in the next fic u know what happened
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guys I think I need to remember that if I go on t I won't become a totally different unrecognisable person
#im so scared of losing myself and becoming a horrible macho man. which i hate#i have to remember that ill retain my interests and my feminine body language#which btw my drama teacher had to FORCE out of me when i was playing a man onstage. i couldnt stop tilting my hips#im down with all the possible effects of t. ive talked with transitioned trans men i know. im certain its right for me#but i keep getting scared itll just turn me into a totally different person fundamentally#anyway.#delete later#im drunk
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I think I messed up guys :)
#Bii sandrock rambles#I keep being seconds away from deleting cute silly salesman from rosemary lore#I get over the feelings relatively quick but then keep seeing MORE things that tell me I’ve been making a mistake this whole time#WHYD IT HAVE TO BE HIM…WHY COULDNT IT HAVE BEEN QI OR SOMETHING!!!#nvm qi has mint. do any sandrock npcs have zero friends.#it’s ok!!!! not like I ever draw him anyways!!!! I can just pretend I never shipped em together!! it’s almost like there’s NO DAMN PROOF!!!#local woman takes videogame characters too seriously#it’s ok guys!!! I didn’t know he was already taken!! don’t worry about it!!!#that’s all my fault guys. gonna go back in time and tell myself to ship romie with someone else. wish I read the room like 6 months ago#I think I’ll get over this incredibly stupid and unreasonable feeling when I wake up tomorrow but gghhhhhhh brain is not doing so good rn
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God it’s so embarrassing to hate vbs cuz of sensory issues
#og post#it’s only really w an and akito cuz they do this moan/growl thing w their Voice#I couldnt get past the first few seconds of ultra c it was such an awful feeling#I don’t wanna say i felt like I was gonna have a meltdown over it cuz I’m almost a fucking adult but god it#it was so bad#this isn’t to say I hate an and Akitos voices they sound fucking great it’s just the direction#this isn’t even limited to vbs btw#when I listen ti love ka I have to physically brace myself for ruis ending line i hate it so much#it’s so fucking violating and gross#proving to me that I would NOT enjoy breath play#anyways Back to what I was saying#I cant in good conscience Rank an and akito high in my fave vocals lo#list*#I KNOW theyre two of the best singers in the game#I FORGIT TO CESNOR THEIR FUCKING NAMES.#ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhjnnnnjm im so sorry aki and an Fans#wtv i can always delete this#self soothing techniques coming in clutch (no theyre not)
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honestly kind of afraid to post much here at all because I WAS doing it last year for a little bit until i got an anon one day wishing i die in agony from prostate cancer completely unprompted. The only reason that happened is because i had posted and tagged something innocuous and a random transphobe found it. and with twitter no longer having moments (and the posts that were put in them just removed so now nothing archived) and cohost like last 2 days just not letting ppl post photos idk where to put art anymore lol
#the simpler solution is to just keep off anon but the few times i ever get asks are on anon itsliek. idk i really dont think it matters#idk how much longer i'll even want to stay on this site but i say that about everything :\#and like i just want somewhere to put stuff i draw because i have fun and would like to think other people want to see it or would enjoy it#but also like what if i wake up and my sd card is corrupted and i just lose all the stuff ive drawn over liek 4 years i want it SOMEWHERE#growing up like basically anytime we moved my mom would either throw out or lose our stuff in a storage unit she couldnt keep up with rent#and i used to have a habit of deleting everything online when i deemed it wasnt worth being seen because of self depreciation so#sometimes it feels like theres no proof i ever existed before 2014 afterwards idk im insane maybe i shouldnt care about this shit#and like no matter what app or website im on im still seeing trans women harrassed and threatened constantly like why did i ever feel like#could be myself and show more of myself online its really no different than “IRL” i just dont think i'll ever be comfortable
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(ooc)
was just gonna be sneaky quiet for the day but I saw that I got another ask, so I figured I'd post somethin-
Weird writing day for me! That's why I haven't answered anything or gotten back to any threads yet. Trying to do art in the meantime; sorry for any delays y'all
#admittedly the not in standard continuity stuff is coming a bit easier but im just having a weird words day#so im trying to get myself to sketch or vaguely expand on au stuff for now#id try to work on fics but it is kinda just generally a weird words day i think. i couldnt continue the sckimona one at least (which i +#+really need to do before AO3 deletes that...)#i'll try another round of reply attempts tomorrow. if it doesnt go well expect art probably shdfkjshjlg#ooc#txt#(on that note. tentatively. you m i g h t be able to request things from me. maybe. you have a greater chance of me indulging you if it's +#+revolving around The Girls of course)#((meaning any of them. any of the scott pilgrim girls. that includes scott /hj))
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#we had the money we needed we had the shit to cover the bills that were backed up because i cant get a fucking job#and yet i let it all get wasted on him ordering $15 taco bell orders#and $20 sushi when we had rice and fish at home#be he ccouldnt cook#and i couldnt do the diahes#and now we are going to have our power shut off and be kicked out of our appartment and even now#even still#i could just go beg to my grandparents#and they might even help me#i could beg to my mom#and maybe they would take pitty on me#but i cant even do that#i cant save myself#but no one else can save me but me#maybe once i no longer have a place to live#ill finally be able to convince my hand to move the knife#and cut the cords of this flesh covered doll#i have no one to blame but myself#i should delete this too#later
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#delete later#god i wish i was neurotypical#found out my flatmate is going to be away for a few days after they left and bc id had no warning my anxiety spiked so hard#that i had such a wave of nausea i had to lie down#idk why that fucking happened. ridiculous. irs not like it really affects that much. just the thing of my home being changed in any way#without warning freaks me the fuck out. couldnt do any work til id laid under my weighted blanket at lunch#and like obvs this is an entirely me thing. i dont expect my flatmates to tell me every detail of what they're doing#not sure how to keep myself from freaking over it though. will think on it#but yeah. if i was neurotypical id be fine. i also want to play ky video games after work but im akways so exhausted that all i can do#is lie in bed under my weighted blanket. it is so frustrating. im so tired. not helped that pain is fucking me up in new ways#so im also upset aboit that. and that christmas is approaching abd that changes the routine completely#and is always overwhelming#but this year im staying home so i will be able to keep it quiet and low key and it'll be just me so i dont have to think about#masking in any way which is kind of nice as even the vibe of Christmas takes a lot oit of me#i enjoy the thought of it and always hate the day. same as my birthday. fun in theory. incredibly stressful actually#idk whether it's work stressing me oit long term but right now any change to what im expecting from my routine is making me#so so so frustrated and upset#i had to go get meds after work on tiesday and became so upset by it that i was awake until 1am and was super nauseous#not enjoying that as a primary symptom of anxiety rn. i find eating hard enough as it is#the hair washing routine has given ne sone stability this week which was very nice abd made me feel calm. abd mt physio routine#the energy it takes to do it is outweighed by the relief i get when ive done that part of my routine and then go to bed#work is hard. working full time is so hard. im coping but not well. defo think i need to try getting regular therapy sessions if only#to help me plan for what i need to do and work through coping strategies bc im really hitting a wall. i need to problem solve all#these things but im so exhausted that i can't. so they just keep piling up
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#woolly rambles#very extremely accidentally managed to spoil my partner's proposal plans this weekend and i couldnt feel any lower 🫠#i very off-handedly guessed a key part of it and i've been kicking myself ever since#he was so disappointed#and like we're fine he's rallied and is going to come up with something else#and has even said he was okay with changing it because hes told a few of our friends#and was thinking of switching to a plan that only he knew#but i still feel like shit about it#it feels like being a kid who accidentally ruined a game you didnt know the rules to and now everyone is upset#and you didnt mean to do it#and wouldnt have done it if you had Known#and you cant blame the other kids for being upset because you did very much ruin the game#i know its all going to be fine and everything will sort itself out#but right now i feel horrible about it#like tearing up at the airport as i type this feel horrible about it#trying to tell myself that big events like weddings always have whoopsie moments like this that feel devastating but actually are fine#and that this blip is just us getting that moment out of the way early#but idk if its working#hoping that spilling my feelings into the tags of a tumblr post will help#also very much may delete this later#i really do suck at the elaborate social rituals
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sigh 😔
#so fucking frustrated with my sleep rn!#was trying to fix it so last night i slept like??? 3/4? hours?#and i literally refused to go anywhere near my bed all day. made sure i was always doing something and i waa quite productive tbh#only to feel exhausted at 10.30pm and think ok. Maybe you can sleep now and get a full sleep then wake up early#i can usually only sleep 6 hours at a time which is enough for me i think#anyways so i fall asleep. only to fucking wake up at 11pm. so i basically just had a nap#and i know what im like. i wont be able to sleep for at least a couple hours now so basically my sleep was fucked#i tried so hard to just force myself to lie back down and try to sleep again but i couldnt do it#i know its not that big a deal but im just so. fucking tired. and i guess i just kinda hate how hard i tried to sort my sleep just for it#to fail so miserably. like its usually not great. hasnt been for years but this is honestly on some other level.#anyways idk why im here complaining about it. will probably delete this later. time to go do whatever awake ppl do i guess#le text post
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#apart from *gesticulates to my mess of scripts*#i think the main thing that stresses me out is the story#the whole game cant be long. but i dont know if in succeeding at telling the story#i also feel like the story is absolute garbage#it really needs like. an outsiders perspectives. but i feel bad asking or telling anyone#its like when i post art. it hurts me terrible because i feel like its all stupid and ugly#and everyone must be lying to me and thinking what a disappointment i am#but after years i have kind of gotten used to it so i dont usually feel that too strongly anymore#but my writing? i cant. thats one of the main reasons i ended up deleting my webcomic. i couldnt bring myself to work on it#it scared me too much :(#i DO like the story of the game. i think it could be a nice story. i just feel its being wasted because of me#haunted.txt#i need to get shit together but. all i do lately is mess everything up :(
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can they not just. see I'm uncomfortable? maybe stop talking to me
#its like these people dont know im autistic?#weirdly worded post but fuck you ig#delete later#im gonna kill myself faster than im gonna make this fucking. fried rice#i REALLY want fried rice but its CLEANED#the kitchen is cleaned. tho i specifically said i wanted to make fried rice#and i couldnt before that because it was FULL of people#it still is. the 'guest' who i dont want here and who the houseowner doesnt want here is watchinf star wars loud and in german and i fucking#hate it here. the younger is drawing (why is she here)#the houseowner cleaned. her man is playing with the dog in yhe kitchen for some reason#can they all just PLEASE get out. or be quiter#whatever. can i kill myself
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ngl as an ex-gifted kid, iori feels kind of special. i often see us get "burned out" treatment or "is now the group dummy" thing (which. still true.) but, at least 4 me n it might not b related 2 my ex-gifted status, theres sometimes this inherent need 2 do n do n do n "please let me do things 4 others smth let my efforts hav some sort of purpose if im not serving others whats the meaning of me possessing any of the abilities i do i need 2 not b worthless i need 2 make others happy". whether it b in physical ways like making things 4 them (not necessarily any order whatsoever, like i hated things like chores or jus being told 2 do things, unlike iori. i specifically liked 2 do things tht Created or were from my hobbies. i wasnt a complete servant type of person) or trying 2 b happy when ur suffering bc if u let urself slip then thats bad bad bad u cant let others down.
#i would often get v burnt out from icon making back in the day bc i would keep pushing myself n feeling rushed n overwhelmed#n ppl on my main would b like 'then jus slow down?' or w/e but its like.. i cant. i couldnt. i need 2 b useful. i needed 2 use my abilities#idrk how 2 word it. i cant explain it. jus a.. let my existence mean smth i guess. if i cant make others happy whats my purpose or w/e#edit: while not a masochist i was also in2 stopping my breathing sometimes if i was riled up but i think tht was jus me being a fweak gjhsd#delete later
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